Monday, July 11, 2011

Another Long Time Since Post

What a disaster... I went to Seattle this weekend. It was my nephew's, Tucker, first birthday party. I guess I over thought the greatness of what the weekend should/would bring...

I anticipated seeing the previously mentioned lady quite frequently. I was mistaken. I also thought that she would be more excited than she was. It basically consumed my whole presence this trip. I genuinely can say that I love this woman. She is everything that I could want in a woman. She's so smart, funny, loving of her friends and drop dead gorgous. My heart skips a beat everytime I'm in her presence... I guess that's why I wanted to be around her so much.

So, I basically put most of my cards into being able to see her and didn't make plans with other friends. I knew that she was going to be busy a few days, just not all of them. Just my luck. I did buy her flowers and left them on her porch before I left. All I got was, "Did you leave me flowers?" I said "Could be." (I was pretty frustrated and wasn't being the best of people at the time) But right afterward I explained exactly why I was frustrated. I got so grief and then recieved no other comments from her at the time I departed back to San Diego.

I'm now on the plane. I paid for the internets. I wrote her a facebook message. She hasn't responded, but she has had time to comment on other peoples stuff. LOL. It's fine. I just wish I knew if she really loved me as she said she does. I really don't feel like it. I love her so much... Maybe too much for our situation. But I can't help what the heart wants.

I guess I need to just live for myself. I'm almost feeling at this point that I'm never going to find someone to share my lifetime with. A few months ago, I was content with that notion. She put the hope and love back in there. Maybe that is why I am... I don't know. I want to say "clinging" to the hope that something can exist in the future with this beautiful person.

So, I guess that tomorrow is the quest for my own life. My own processes to rebuilding the shambles of the hope of a life. It's going to take hard work and dedication. But, I need to do it for myself and not anyone else... Like Scott Pilgrim. "Scott just earned the power of self respect!!"

HERE WE GO! The plane is in it's final decent. I better try to wrap this up before I get bitch slapped by the attendants. Til next time. Hopefully, it'll be a good thing then. LOL

Saturday, April 23, 2011

A Few Things

Okay, been a few weeks since I posted... Here we go...

Things have been pretty good. I'm still falling for this certain girl. It's so tough because I don't know what she is thinking half the time. Text communication is killing me. So, I'm trying to change it. I have called her the past few days. Everytime, she texts me about how happy she is to talk to me. Yet, she doesn't ever try to call me... I can understand that she thinks I may be working, but really? You can't leave a message?

I really want to just be with her. I'm constantly hoping that things will just happen and she'll want to move down here and be with me... We'll see if that ever happens.

She did come down and visit me for a few days. It was one of the best times that I have ever had. I couldn't tell anyone though. She's still not sure if she wants people to know that she's into me or not.. I don't know how that makes me feel. I would tell the world. I guess I'm just not as important as I'd like to be. But, like the saying says, "Just because someone isn't loving you as much as you'd like, doesn't mean that they aren't loving you with everything that they have."

Oh well. Time will tell. I've just felt very insecure about it for a while. Especially in the last hour or so. It'll get better....

Monday, April 4, 2011


Had my performance appraisal today at work. My sup. said that everything was going well. I don't know if I agree at this moment. I mean, yes, things are just continuing right along. I haven't been striving to excell. I need to step it up... I shall say it again!! STEP IT UP!!!! Waiting to see what the future brings. I'm hoping for a sign that things will actually happen in the love department. There is definatly somone that I'm hoping to continue seeing. So far, things have been amazing. The distance hasn't really been as difficult as I thought it would be. I think I just need her to decide if she actually wants to move down this way or not. I'm blessed to have her in my life no matter what happens. Of course, I'm not going to tell her exactly how I feel. May not be prudent. We'll see what happens. No matter what, it's time to step it up in everything... DO WORK!!!!!!

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Today's creativity

I wasn't as creative as I wanted to be. However, I did create a decent dinner. I baked a bone in ribeye covered in Sweet Baby Ray's BBQ, with boxed Jullian potatoes, Stove-top Stuffing and fresh green beans.. Hahaha I know, I know... The extra stuff isn't good. (except for the steamed fresh green beans) but it's better than going to McDonalds. It's the effort that counts. haha Okay, to be more creative tomorrow...

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Year and a Half

Really? Has it been that long? I need to be able to do this more often... So much has changed. By myself in California. New job doing almost the same thing. Missing a woman that I've only met a few times...

Yet, I am the happiest I have ever been in my entire life. I can't wait for the future... Bring it on!